Showing posts with label Woman. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Woman. Show all posts
Here's The Key To Getting Any Woman You Want...
It's something so simple, so obvious, you'll kick yourself for not thinking of it before.
Ready for it? Here it comes:
Persistence!
Persistence is KEY to getting what you want.
This is true in all endeavors in life. If you give up too early, you will never achieve your goals.
This is *especially* true when it comes to women.
But before we go any further, I'd like to make the distinction between "persistence" and "being a stalker." Stalking a girl is never a good idea, not just because it's creepy anti-social behavior, but because it means you do not have a very good, active life.
It's important to have other stuff you're passionate about than just a woman. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't pursue her a bit.
Lots of men make the mistake of not chasing after a woman, either through laziness, or ego, or what have you.
The fact is, in today's world, women still want to be pursued by guys.
Seriously, the whole "women's lib" notion of girls asking guys out has never caught on, and was never very popular to begin with.
There's still that old status quo in place because I think women realized just how crappy it is to ask someone out and get turned down, so it's back to the "old" way of doing things.
However, most men know that it stinks getting turned down too, and some fall into the trap of waiting for the girl to call and suggest a meet.
Don't be *that* guy.
He's lonely, and his porn collection is growing by the minute.
Be the guy who takes the time to call a girl when he feels like talking to her. Ask her to meet you for drinks or some other activity. Talk on the phone and see what's going on with her.
Women are busy people in this day and age, and if you don't stay in their life in someway, you'll get pushed aside and forgotten eventually.
Even if a girl can't meet you, keep at them. Call them every couple days until they're ready to meet.
Don't get caught up in phone games. If you want to call her, call her. Leave a message. Keep at it, not too intensely, but just enough to stay on her radar. Drop an email, talk on IM, do whatever it takes to become a part of her life.
This kind of gentle persistence, though a bit of work, can pay off in the long run.
And if she doesn't appreciate it and doesn't want anything more to do with you, she'll eventually let you know.
The tactics I give you in my book The Art Of Approaching can go a long way to helping you go after the woman you want. In it, I teach you not only what to say to women, but how to break yourself of any fear of rejection you may have. If you haven't checked my book out already, what are you waiting for? Click below to read my book now:
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Online Dating is Not a Contest
Online dating is not a competition between competing males for the attention of a female. Grow up. Change your mind set from “winning” to “searching”. This isn’t high school. You are all grown up and have been for quite some time, now. Your attitude is the most important asset you have. You should like yourself and not concentrate of all of the things that aren’t YOUR idea of the perfect guy…the one the all women want.
What is that women want, you ask? That’s the age old question. Being of the female persuasion myself, I can tell you a few things women want and don’t want.
Women want a man to be confident…NOT an arrogant jerk. There’s a big difference. You need to like yourself and not be self depreciating but you don’t need to come across like you believe that you are a gift to them from God and have just fallen from the sky. They don’t want you to think that THEY just fell from heaven and are some kind of perfect being, either. They can’t live up to that expectation.
Women want a communicator. The “strong silent type” really isn’t appealing at all. They think you probably don’t have an original thought in your head and you probably haven’t heard a word they said, either or that you just don’t care what they said or didn’t even hear what they said. They want you to be interesting enough to want to know more about you and they want you to think that they are interesting enough to ask intelligent questions about what is important to them, too.
Women do NOT want to be a prize to be won. They don’t want to be a trophy. They want to be the ONE woman that you want to be with.
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