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Here's The Key To Getting Any Woman You Want...
It's something so simple, so obvious, you'll kick yourself for not thinking of it before.
Ready for it? Here it comes:
Persistence!
Persistence is KEY to getting what you want.
This is true in all endeavors in life. If you give up too early, you will never achieve your goals.
This is *especially* true when it comes to women.
But before we go any further, I'd like to make the distinction between "persistence" and "being a stalker." Stalking a girl is never a good idea, not just because it's creepy anti-social behavior, but because it means you do not have a very good, active life.
It's important to have other stuff you're passionate about than just a woman. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't pursue her a bit.
Lots of men make the mistake of not chasing after a woman, either through laziness, or ego, or what have you.
The fact is, in today's world, women still want to be pursued by guys.
Seriously, the whole "women's lib" notion of girls asking guys out has never caught on, and was never very popular to begin with.
There's still that old status quo in place because I think women realized just how crappy it is to ask someone out and get turned down, so it's back to the "old" way of doing things.
However, most men know that it stinks getting turned down too, and some fall into the trap of waiting for the girl to call and suggest a meet.
Don't be *that* guy.
He's lonely, and his porn collection is growing by the minute.
Be the guy who takes the time to call a girl when he feels like talking to her. Ask her to meet you for drinks or some other activity. Talk on the phone and see what's going on with her.
Women are busy people in this day and age, and if you don't stay in their life in someway, you'll get pushed aside and forgotten eventually.
Even if a girl can't meet you, keep at them. Call them every couple days until they're ready to meet.
Don't get caught up in phone games. If you want to call her, call her. Leave a message. Keep at it, not too intensely, but just enough to stay on her radar. Drop an email, talk on IM, do whatever it takes to become a part of her life.
This kind of gentle persistence, though a bit of work, can pay off in the long run.
And if she doesn't appreciate it and doesn't want anything more to do with you, she'll eventually let you know.
The tactics I give you in my book The Art Of Approaching can go a long way to helping you go after the woman you want. In it, I teach you not only what to say to women, but how to break yourself of any fear of rejection you may have. If you haven't checked my book out already, what are you waiting for? Click below to read my book now:
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Using Free Dating Services Online
Online dating services are becoming increasingly popular among those that are looking to find friends, and maybe even more if the time is right and they meet the right person. Many people find the thought of being set up on blind dates, and the pressure of dating somewhat forced and unnatural. With online dating, much of the uncomfortable elements are removed. Not only do you get a chance to speak with your date first, you also get to see if it is likely you will make a connection – this removes any need for spending an evening together when you can tell you are not going to get on within the first 15 minutes.
Online dating services are also great because of the added security and anonymity that they offer. In the online world you will need to exchange telephone numbers, tell your date where you work and live, and loads of other personal details from the outset. With free dating services online, much of the need for specifics is removed, rendering it possible to share the information that you would like to and leaving out the information that would it make it possible for the wrong person to be able to contact and harass you if they would like to.
Online dating allows you to look at a profile picture of any potential dates before you enter into conversation and things go further. Because everyone has their own personal preferences surrounding how they choose dates it is ideal to have this iteration online; letting someone down is not difficult when you are online because you never have to respond to their correspondence in the first place.
In the offline world many people are limited to who they can meet. Apart from friends of friends, and co-workers, meeting others can be very difficult – especially as you get older and your social groups become more limited as your friends get married and have more strenuous work commitments. With online dating you open up a whole world of opportunities to meet new people who are in exactly the same position as you are. Not only that, but the sheer volume of people at online dating sites means you are far more likely to meet a person who is an exact match to you and your personality.
Everyone dreams their whole life of meeting a person who is perfectly suited to them, and what better way to do it than through an online dating service? With such a myriad of opportunities, and the ability to make friends in the process, there really is no reason not to give it a try. You can also save money too! With free dating services available, you do not have to waste money on pointless dates, or spend money on your credit card just to meet people in the first place. Why not sign up to a free dating service online today and see if you can meet the person of your dreams?
The author Rebecca Walker writes articles for http://www.wetties.com He also gives valuable information about friend networking sharing, free internet dating, online dating services are accessible on the internet
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Adult Dating - Do's and Don'ts
DO:
Make sure you fill out all fields provided by the adult dating site you are becoming a member of to the best of your ability and as honestly as possible. Make sure you write a good amount of text about yourself and try to describe yourself and your interests the way you see them from your point of view. Let yourself be yourself. Make sure your personality shows through in your writing so that you can convey an accurate representation of who you are.
DON'T:
Adult dating sites can only give you back what you put into them. Don't write things like, "I will add more later". Do it now. You're right there so you may as well complete what you started. After all, you are there to meet people and if you are serious about finding a dating partner complete this process and show others that you are serious. Use complete sentences and complete words. Do not type things like, "cuz" or "b4" or "U".
DO:
Add a good, clear, bright photo to your profile. Add several, at least three. Take a shot inside and outside. The camera can be tricky sometimes and some people take a more accurate representation (better picture) of themselves either inside or outside.
DON'T:
Do not add a picture of yourself that is too dark. Nothing is more frustrating for adult dating site members than having to get real close to the monitor and squint there eyes in order to see what color your hair is. If you want to take a picture of dog, make sure you are also in the picture. I've seen many pictures on adult dating sites where there are four pictures available for viewing where the first picture is the person I'm interested in and the next three are of their dog. I'm not here to date their dog. Also, DO NOT upload a picture of you with your neighbors or friend's child! They may not appreciate you putting a picture of their child on the Internet and, after all, this is an adult dating site, not a child pageantry.
DO:
Write a good subject line. Write a subject line that stands out. Adult dating site members can receive quite a bit of email, so you want to stand out from the crowd. Remember, the subject line is the first thing visible.
DON'T:
Do not leave the generic subject line that is automatically generated when creating a new email. Doing so will make you look lazy or imply that you do not have much to say or are unoriginal. It does not mean that you are, however, this is something the reader may extrapolate.
DO:
Write something interesting, perhaps about yourself. Make sure you end the initial email with a question or two to make it easier for the recipient to reply with follow up correspondence. Also, sign the email with your name. Doing so makes the entire adult dating process more personable and "real".
DON'T:
If you want to receive a reply, don't simply write "hi, I like your profile" in your initial correspondence. Doing so is extremely flat and does not exactly warrant a reply from the recipient. If you do get a reply, it may consist of a simple "thanks". At that point, you are back to square one and have basically wasted time and also have diminished the chance of another reply.
DO:
Be polite! Remember, these are real people with real feelings. You are at an adult dating site with other people who are mutually looking to meet. If you are serious about meeting other singles, be respectful. Wouldn't you expect the same?
DON'T:
Do not be lewd! Women especially are not receptive to such initial correspondence. If you are not here for dating and are looking more for a sexual dating encounter or "hook up", you are in the wrong place. If you are looking for sites that cater to sexual adult dating, have a look here for a list of sites that will accommodate you.
These are just a few, brief tips I've put together. I will write more tips soon. I hope these simple tips will get you started and enhance your online adult dating experience.
By Chip Andrews
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Double Dating
time with your significant other. It gives your date
the opportunity to meet your friends and it also can
provide a comfortable experience for someone who might
be a little nervous to go out on a one-on-one date
quite yet.
Double dating is an excellent idea if you want to meet
someone new and you aren’t quite comfortable with
being alone with them yet. You can invite a couple you
know to come along too.
This allows for you to be around people you are
comfortable with while you are getting to know your
date. Some people like to go on a double date first so
they are not so nervous on the first date.
Going on a double date also gives your date the
opportunity to get to know you through your friends.
It might be a good idea to invite a couple that will
say good things about you if you really like your date
and you want to see them again.
Your date can get a good idea with the type of person
you are by who you are hanging out with and the things
they say about you.
It is a really good way to get another perspective on
the person you are going out with or if you want your
date to know more about you.
Double dating provides a comfortable experience when
you don’t want to go out with your date alone but you
do want to get to know them.
In addition, double dating provides an excellent way
for you or your date to see how both of you interact
with your friends and get a different perspective.
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Truth About Online Dating Sites
The truth about online dating sites. Has this ever happened to you? "Free" doesn't always mean Free.
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Nice Girls Do It, Too!
Time: You can go through hundreds of online profiles and look at hundreds of pictures in the same length of time only one real world date takes and the screening is already done for you. You can tell right away if a guy is only looking for casual relationships or long term commitments. How many times have you worked 8 hours, gone home and spent another hour getting ready to go out then gone to the local hang-out for singles only to see the same old jerks, losers and drunks that are always there?
Money: For the price of one evening out on the town you can enjoy an entire month of meeting men from the safety of your own home….do it in your jammies or sweats and with a beauty facial working its magic.
It works. It really does work if you are willing to do the right things. Write a profile that grabs attention, post recent pictures of yourself, be fun and interesting while chatting with the men you meet on line, answering emails promptly and being on time for a pre-arranged online meeting.
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Safe Cyber Dating
Cyber dating is one of the most popular dating venues these days. No longer is it necessary to go to the bar down the street to find a date. No longer is it necessary to romance someone through flowers and candy on a date. Dating has become a cyber event. Not only can you meet people through cyber dating but you can actually court them through cyber dating as well. But, what you need to remember is that cyber dating needs to be kept safe.
Safe cyber dating doesn’t mean no cyber dating. Instead, you should take precautions like any other dating situation. Things that are personal to you, like finances and business relationships should be kept out of the cyber dating world. Instead, learn about each other lives. Safe cyber dating is important because of many reasons, but the most important reason is for your own protection. Because cyber dating is so easy to get into, there are many people who use cyber dating as a means to lure people into their scams or bad situations. Cyber dating is a smoke screen, unfortunately, to many people. And, even if the person you are dating in cyber space is on the up and up, that does not mean that your date hasn’t lied even just a little about him or herself either. Cyber dating is also a good way to hide. In order to learn more about how to be safe, check out
http://www.getdatingtips.com.
So how can you be safe in cyber dating? Don’t trust individuals with your personal information. Don’t provide cyber dating partners with information regarding your home address or financial information. Meet your cyber dating partner in an open area where other people are close by for safeties sake. Take your time getting to know your cyber dating friend. Cyber dating, even after all of this is said and done, is still a great way to meet people.
S A Baker is staff writer at http://www.getdatingtips.com
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Another Aspect of Free Dating Sites
I think the concept of free dating sites has been integrated into the life of almost all individuals. Sometimes, I feel the free dating sites are taking us a step ahead in this age of new technologies. I am regular to these free dating sites, not only to meet people through online chat but also for reading and posting blogs, and sharing information.
Earlier, when I was using free dating sites, it was just for the sake of fun. I was discussing about the girls I met on these sites with my friends. All my friends had also registered to free dating sites and we were having great fun. I had many online friends- some from the same country or state and others from some different countries. I have many experiences- good and bad- pertaining to the free dating sites. But, fun was the end product of every experience. After night-long conversation with the girls through online chat, it was exciting to discuss it with friends in the morning.
As all my friends were discussing about their dates with the girls they met through free dating sites, I was inspired to have my dating experience. I remember the dates with some of the girls I met on the free dating sites, who belonged to the same city I am in. I was feeling so excited and driven. I had my maximum date with
I’m still active on the free dating sites, these days, not for fun or dates; they are now things of the past. Of course, I have many friends who I meet through free dating sites. But, with the busy schedules of job and family I barely get time to meet them personally. However, I frequent to the free dating sites to read some of the interesting blog posts. Many people share their funny experience, sometimes I also add to the blog posts from my experience. I find it interesting and motivated to write tips for the newbie daters of the free dating sites. My regular contributions to the dating sites have made me an active member and sometimes I find people asking me advice and suggestion on dating. In a nutshell, I stick to these free dating sites for one or the other reason.
Free dating sites are fun and anyone out there on these sites ought to know the art of conversation to start an awesome journey of online dating and make friends. But my suggestion is to go though the instructions on the free dating sites carefully for safe dating experience. Wish you good luck!
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Nice Guys Do It, Too!
I’m talking about online dating, of course. When the phenomenon of online dating sites started several years ago, they were a haven for perverts, sexual predators, nerds, and weirdoes of assorted varieties.
That is just no longer the case. All the stigma of online dating is gone. Online dating has gone main stream and is, not only acceptable, but expected. Online dating has become the primary tool of single people of all ages to generate an interesting and rewarding social life.
Let’s face it…we are busy guys. We just simply do not have the time, the energy, or the financial where-with-all to date several nights each week while we look for the “one”. You can sort through hundreds of profiles in a month for less money than you would spend on one evening out, thus, saving time and money. We use the internet to save ourselves time and money for a lot of things like investments, shopping, medical information, and communications.
Why not make use of such a useful tool for our social and personal lives as well? You could find the love of your life. At the very least, you will meet some interesting people and possibly make some lasting friendships. It’s easy to get started. All you need is a computer and an internet connection. You’ll need to search for online dating services that meet your specific needs. They are many and varied.
Join one or two. Then you’ll need to write a great profile, upload a recent picture of yourself and start making and answering contacts. That really is all there is to it…that and patience.
Don’t wait any longer to start your new and interesting social life. Miss or Ms. “Right” could be only a few clicks of the mouse away.
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Online Dating is Not a Contest
Online dating is not a competition between competing males for the attention of a female. Grow up. Change your mind set from “winning” to “searching”. This isn’t high school. You are all grown up and have been for quite some time, now. Your attitude is the most important asset you have. You should like yourself and not concentrate of all of the things that aren’t YOUR idea of the perfect guy…the one the all women want.
What is that women want, you ask? That’s the age old question. Being of the female persuasion myself, I can tell you a few things women want and don’t want.
Women want a man to be confident…NOT an arrogant jerk. There’s a big difference. You need to like yourself and not be self depreciating but you don’t need to come across like you believe that you are a gift to them from God and have just fallen from the sky. They don’t want you to think that THEY just fell from heaven and are some kind of perfect being, either. They can’t live up to that expectation.
Women want a communicator. The “strong silent type” really isn’t appealing at all. They think you probably don’t have an original thought in your head and you probably haven’t heard a word they said, either or that you just don’t care what they said or didn’t even hear what they said. They want you to be interesting enough to want to know more about you and they want you to think that they are interesting enough to ask intelligent questions about what is important to them, too.
Women do NOT want to be a prize to be won. They don’t want to be a trophy. They want to be the ONE woman that you want to be with.
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Online Dating For Single Men
The good news is that all you need is a computer and an internet connection to get started. The first thing to do is find an online dating site that fits your needs. There are the large sites that offer many extras like live video chat and even match you up with ladies using your profiles and, also, a lot of sites that cater to special interests like religious preferences, outdoor enthusiasts, gays, etc. You need to choose one or two that will meet your needs. I don’t recommend the free sites. The paid sites have a money back guarantee if you aren’t satisfied and the investment is small. A whole month costs less than one dinner and movie date.
The next thing you need to do is write a killer, but honest, profile and upload a recent but flattering picture of yourself. Now you are all set. Start contacting ladies whose profiles sound interesting to you and answer any lady who contacts you…and do so promptly…not, however, on holidays or weekends. You don’t want to appear that desperate. Don’t give up after a month and think you will never find the right lady for you. New people join online dating services daily and at least half of them are ladies many, of whom, will want to meet you.
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